Help! We Broke Up, and I Want Ex Back
If you’ve just been dumped and you want ex back, don’t panic. Chances are if they loved you before they can love you again; you just need to identify the problems in your relationship and see if you can fix them.
The first step, then, is figuring out what went wrong in the first place. Don’t bother drunk-dialing him or sending her pitiful messages on facebook. If you haven’t fixed the fundamental problems in your relationship, this will do nothing but make you look like a pathetic loser. Collect yourself, take a week or two to see if you can pinpoint just what it is that caused your relationship to fail. And be honest; don’t try and shift blame onto someone else. Actually, you’re better off if the relationship’s failure is your fault. It’s much easier to change your own habits and behavior than it is to change someone else’s.
Miscommunication is to blame for the majority of relationship failures. Everyone loves differently, and everyone has different requirements when it comes to feeling loved. Do you think hat you know how your ex feels? Does he or she know how you feel? Or do you find yourself frustrated that they don’t seem to understand where you’re coming from? These are all signs of poor communication between partners.
Fortunately there are ways to work on this. Do your research; read up on the nature of miscommunication in relationships. Sometimes it can be as easy as re-stating your feelings in different words. Be willing to compromise your behavior, but not your personality. If you want ex back bad enough, you can probably do it.
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