What Couples in Therapy Need to Know
I bet there are thousands of books written on relationships. I further bet that, if you combined them all and removed redundant information, you’d be left with the idea that couples in therapy need help with: communication. It isn’t a profound idea I know, however I propose that therapists, while helpful, aren’t necessary to fix your relationship. I further submit that almost all self help books tell you to communicate ineffectively. They don’t tell you what to specifically say when you walk into the other room and see your partner sitting on the sofa. They tell you to ‘share feelings, thoughts, dreams and fears’… not exactly what most people need.
Michael Webb has been on Oprah and just about every major media outlet (print and TV) available. The undisputed romance king did the unthinkable and this is what couples in therapy need to know. You need to know what questions you should be asking your partner and I’m not talking about feelings. I’m talking about the nuts and bolts of life, the raw issues and the questions you’ve never thought to ask or answer. Take a peek and see for yourself. Consider how well you’ve done with the thousands of resources available and then finally get on with your life and relationship by asking each other a few questions per day.
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